‘I Wanted Jesus… and I Still Wanted Sex’ #012

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The Dangerous Gentlemen Society
December 11, 2025
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I wanted to follow Jesus.
But I still wanted to keep having sex outside of marriage.

That’s sin. And it was real in my life.

So I prayed — not polished, just honest:

God, please bring me a bride… so I can marry and walk in purity.”

He did.

God brought me a woman of strength and faith — my bride.

And this time… we waited.
No sex until after marriage.

THE BENEFIT?:

  • You learn self-control — the kind every man needs to lead well.
  • You honor her — not just with words, but with restraint and respect.
  • You say loud and clear: “You are worth waiting for.”

Purity before marriage becomes the best preparation for marriage.

Scripture Focus:

“For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality.”
1 Thessalonians 4:3

FIELD CHARGE:

Don’t call compromise “grace.”
Don’t excuse lust — kill it.
Learn to lead now — before the vows.

Real men wait.
Real men lead.
Real men bow to Jesus — not their flesh.

MISSION REMINDER:

Purity isn’t passive. It’s warfare.
And every time you say “No” to sin, you’re saying “Yes” to Christ.

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